Figuring things out for oneself and others in one's community and at large

 I realize I go 'out of bounds' by talking to each person way beyond their interest or time availability..but in writing, how hard can that be for someone to 'table for another time' especially if bridging gaps is key to preventing or addressing major problems. Each piece of a person's life has to be tended to and most need a team of support. If someone becomes incapacitated in one way or another, that should not throw their train or life off the track or create a major hurdle to cross alone.